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Teaching you how to live fearlessly,
without waiting for permission.
 

You see her, you know her, but now it's time to

become HER

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BecomingHER 

Introducing

The Selfish Contract's signature group program that focuses on helping women let go of who they're 'supposed to be' and embrace who they are now.  

In 6 weeks, BECOMING HER helps you identify what has gotten in your way of becoming exactly who you've always been, before getting distracted by what everyone else NEEDED you to be. 

 

To finally embody what it means to be unapologetic in who you are while learning life long tools in establishing change in all needed areas of your life. 

Becoming HER is a space designed to help you heal, change, and become exactly who you were intended to be without waiting for the permission to do so. 

Do you ever just feel like ...

You've lost who you are and unsure who you are now?

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You have an idea what you may need, but no idea where to start ? 

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Completely burnt out in your day to day life but feel guilty when you prioritize yourself? 

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Your past has left you confused and scared to take any control of your life? 

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You've done 'the work,' just nothing seems to change. 

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You're constantly battling feeling confident and self sabotage to get in your own way. 

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Just imagine  finally feeling 

LIKE YOU FINALLY UNDERSTAND HOW TO NAVIGATE YOUR 

TRAUMAS/EXPERIENCES/PERSPECTIVES IN A WAY THAT STOPS YOU FROM

SELF SABOTAGING.

THAT YOU HAVE A SENSE OF HEALING WHO YOU WERE, IN ORDER TO BECOME WHAT YOU ARE

A SENSE OF FREEDOM AND EMPOWERMENT TOWARDS PRIORITIZING YOURSELF AND YOUR GOALS. 

THAT YOU ACTUALLY YAHVE THE ABILITY TO SET THE BOUNDARIES NEEDED WITHOUT CONSTANTLY FEELING GUILTY.  

..OKAY WITH

NOT BEING EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE, ALL THE TIME. 

TO FINALLY LEARN HOW TO BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOURSELF WITH A SENSE OF CONFIDENCE TO STOP PRETENDING TO BE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT ANYMORE.  

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THE METHOD

The more we run from some of our most difficult experiences, the longer it takes for us to accept and learn from

where we've been. 

Exploring our thought processes and greatest fears, Alyx utilizes her therapeutic background to explore your self limiting beliefs and how they've gotten you here. 

 

This will allow you to not only accept where you've been but release what no longer is working for you in the now. 

Heal

Feel like you're on a hamster wheel?

 

It's because you are.

You've been doing the same thing, hoping for a different result. 

Getting to the root of your cycles that felt 'normal', and establish how these cycles have gotten in your way and what needs to change. 

 This focuses on boundaries, imposter syndrome and running away from what you really want out of fear of what it will require. 
 

Deep down you know who you've always wanted to be, you just didn't know how to get there. 

BH focuses on teaching you how to be unapologetic and fearless in finally showing up as yourself , regardless of who everyone keeps telling you to be. 

The bread and butter of the program, this will teach you how to be confident, self reliant and learn what it means to finally show up for yourself. 

 

Change

Become

WHAT'S THE 
STRUCTURE?

6 WEEKLY GROUP CALLS

GUEST EXPERT SPEAKER

'BECOMING HER' WORKBOOK

24/5 VOXER SUPPORT

WHAT'S THE 
OUTCOME ?

TOOLS TO NAVIGATE TRIGGERS

BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF SELF 

STRATEGIES TO ACCOMPLISH GOALS & NOT SABOTAGE SUCCESS 

OVERALL CONFIDENCE & ABILITY TO SHOW UP FOR YOURSELF


 

THIS PROGRAM IS FOR YOU IF 

You're ready to become the exact person you've always dreamt of being, before life got in the way. 

You need help with what steps to take in order to stay focused &achieve  goals that may have gotten away from you . 

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You're tired of feeling burnt out from life and ready to take steps towards living life on your own terms. 

To stop waiting for permission from anyone else and allow yourself to live the way you want, regardless of what other's say. 

You're tired of your people pleasing ways and ready to say 'yes' to yourself, instead of everyone else. 

To finally learn how to implement life long boundaries with not only others, but also yourself to put an end to toxic cycles. 

You're ready to feel confident in who you are and stop waiting for validation. 

 

You want to overcome second guessing yourself and feel confident that you know how to show up for yourself, when you need it the most. 

You are ready to accept and process where you've been, and turn your pain into power. 

To release what fears or negative thoughts may have held you back all this time, and start making the changes you need and start growing into the powerhouse you already are. 

WHAT THEY'RE
Saying

My favorite part has been the constant contact, and accountability. Alyx teaches me how to do the work and pushes me to be who I want to be and where I want to be by digging down to the root, even if it is uncomfortable.

- Daian 

Alyx was so easy to talk and open up to. She called me out when she needed to and gave me so many tools to help me navigate my insecurities and constant anxiety. She taught me how to stop carrying everyone else’s moods and emotions, while learning how to be okay with not being okay.  I am confident and have peace. That alone has made me a new person.

- Melissa 

The awareness has been my favorite part! It blew my mind what I learned about myself. My whole life I was taught to take care of others first, but now I learned what it means to be ‘selfish’ and finally take care of myself to become who I want to be. 

- Ivy

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