You see her, you know her, but now it's time to
become HER.

BecomingHER
Introducing
The Selfish Contract's signature group program that focuses on helping women let go of who they're 'supposed to be' and embrace who they are now.
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In 6 weeks, BECOMING HER helps you identify what has gotten in your way of becoming exactly who you've always been, before getting distracted by what everyone else NEEDED you to be.
To finally embody what it means to be unapologetic in who you are while learning life long tools in establishing change in all needed areas of your life.
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Becoming HER is a space designed to help you heal, change, and become exactly who you were intended to be without waiting for the permission to do so.
Do you ever just feel like ...
You've lost who you are and unsure who you are now?
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You have an idea what you may need, but no idea where to start ?
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Completely burnt out in your day to day life but feel guilty when you prioritize yourself?
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Your past has left you confused and scared to take any control of your life?
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You've done 'the work,' just nothing seems to change.
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You're constantly battling feeling confident and self sabotage to get in your own way.
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Just imagine finally feeling
LIKE YOU FINALLY UNDERSTAND HOW TO NAVIGATE YOUR
TRAUMAS/EXPERIENCES/PERSPECTIVES IN A WAY THAT STOPS YOU FROM
SELF SABOTAGING.
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THAT YOU HAVE A SENSE OF HEALING WHO YOU WERE, IN ORDER TO BECOME WHAT YOU ARE.
A SENSE OF FREEDOM AND EMPOWERMENT TOWARDS PRIORITIZING YOURSELF AND YOUR GOALS.
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THAT YOU ACTUALLY YAHVE THE ABILITY TO SET THE BOUNDARIES NEEDED WITHOUT CONSTANTLY FEELING GUILTY.
..OKAY WITH
NOT BEING EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE, ALL THE TIME.
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TO FINALLY LEARN HOW TO BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOURSELF WITH A SENSE OF CONFIDENCE TO STOP PRETENDING TO BE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT ANYMORE.

THE METHOD
The more we run from some of our most difficult experiences, the longer it takes for us to accept and learn from
where we've been.
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Exploring our thought processes and greatest fears, Alyx utilizes her therapeutic background to explore your self limiting beliefs and how they've gotten you here.
This will allow you to not only accept where you've been but release what no longer is working for you in the now.
Heal
Feel like you're on a hamster wheel?
It's because you are.
You've been doing the same thing, hoping for a different result.
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Getting to the root of your cycles that felt 'normal', and establish how these cycles have gotten in your way and what needs to change.
This focuses on boundaries, imposter syndrome and running away from what you really want out of fear of what it will require.
Deep down you know who you've always wanted to be, you just didn't know how to get there.
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BH focuses on teaching you how to be unapologetic and fearless in finally showing up as yourself , regardless of who everyone keeps telling you to be.
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The bread and butter of the program, this will teach you how to be confident, self reliant and learn what it means to finally show up for yourself.
Change
Become
THIS PROGRAM IS FOR YOU IF
You're ready to become the exact person you've always dreamt of being, before life got in the way.
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You need help with what steps to take in order to stay focused &achieve goals that may have gotten away from you .
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You're tired of feeling burnt out from life and ready to take steps towards living life on your own terms.
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To stop waiting for permission from anyone else and allow yourself to live the way you want, regardless of what other's say.
You're tired of your people pleasing ways and ready to say 'yes' to yourself, instead of everyone else.
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To finally learn how to implement life long boundaries with not only others, but also yourself to put an end to toxic cycles.
You're ready to feel confident in who you are and stop waiting for validation.
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You want to overcome second guessing yourself and feel confident that you know how to show up for yourself, when you need it the most.
You are ready to accept and process where you've been, and turn your pain into power.
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To release what fears or negative thoughts may have held you back all this time, and start making the changes you need and start growing into the powerhouse you already are.